Adding the ip to the relay list of the client should be enough. If you have https self signed certificate that could be problematic i have noticed…
The quote you provided appears to be from the book "The End of History and the Last Man" written by political philosopher Francis Fukuyama. The book was published
Yeah its still a bit messy with zaps. No perfect wallet to use and you need you to keep track of multiple wallets on if you want to try things
Or your own node with Umbrel. I hope you do not keep all your btc in just one custodial wallet like WoS……